Some people might ask or wonder what a typical day is like for a stay home mom of two. I thought I'd write a brief run-down, so some day I could look back and remember.
6am- wake up and hurry to pee, wash my face, put contacts in and set up breast pump stuff. Grab Sheldon before his fusses wake up his sister. Simultaneously nurse baby boy and pump. Sheldon has huge blow-out. Run upstairs to get a new outfit after putting Sheldon on his tummy- so as not to smear poop on anything. Come back downstairs to find Sheldon on his back. What?! He rolled for the first time and I didn't even see it! Stand in awe for a second that my baby is not a newborn anymore. Peel sticky onsie off baby, wipe back. Change kid and hand wash onsie. Start some coffee. Finish nursing baby. Pump. Wash all pump stuff. Grab some coffee and drink it while playing with Sheldon- trying unsuccessfully to get him to roll again. Get breakfast ready for Coranelle. Run dishwasher. Put away dishes from sink. Talk to Ryan a little bit. Put Sheldon down for a morning nap. Eat a bowl of cereal while starting a batch of chocolate chip cookies. Put clothes and makeup on. Get Coranelle up and dressed. Do Coranelle's hair. Bring Coranelle downstairs. Start laundry and help C with breakfast. Call rec center to make reservation for Coranelle.
Play with Coranelle and help her with her Alphabet puzzle. Watch in awe as she recognizes so many letters and sings the alphabet. Sheldon awakes and is ready to nurse again. Change diapers. Find shoes and water bottles and snacks. Help Coranelle put on her shoes, as she did it by herself but got them on the wrong feet. Out the door to the rec center. Check Coranelle in to Child Sitting and smile as the ladies ooooh and awwww over a smiley Sheldon. Do a mommy and baby stroller class with Sheldon and meet some new moms and get really sweaty. Try to run a tired and fussy Sheldon around the track. He finally falls asleep at 10:20 and I have to pick Coranelle up at 10:30. He instantly wakes up when we stop running. Take Coranelle to the indoor play place and try (unsuccessfully) to get Sheldon back down. Stand and watch in amazement at all of the climbing, obstacles and mazes Coranelle can conquer on her own. Observe and smile as I see her curly head of hair racing around the play place. Coax her out the door and load kids and stroller into car. Decide to drive around for a while to give a crying Sheldon, a much needed power nap. Drive for 20 minutes, he screams for 10 while Coranelle tries to calm him down by singing him Twinkle Twinkle Little Star and The Bear Went Over the Mountain songs. What a sweet big sister! He finally sleeps for 10 min.
Come home. Make Coranelle Mac and Cheese. Take clothes out of the dryer. Help Coranelle eat. Cut up bell peppers and apples for Coranelle. Nurse Sheldon. Change Coranelle and read her two books and enjoy cuddling with her and her profound interest in books and enjoy how much she interacts. Return down stairs to make Sheldon smile and coo. Play and read books with Sheldon. Put him down for a nap. Realize it's 1:30 and I haven't eaten lunch. Make a quick lunch and eat it while unloading the dishwasher. Slice and peel carrots for a dinner I need to prepare for a friend who just had surgery. Make a chix marinade and marinade two pans of chicken. Fold laundry. Check and return a few e-mails. Make a phone call. Sit down to read a chapter for my bible study tomorrow night and Sheldon wakes up. Begin nursing Sheldon and hear Coranelle wake up. Grab Coranelle and make her a snack and drink to eat while I feed Sheldon. Put "Toy Story" on. Finish feeding Sheldon. Change two diapers. Lather Coranelle up with sunscreen. Get out water table and wash it and fill it. Set-up sprinkler and head out with both kids to play in the water. Laugh and giggle with Coranelle in the sprinkler. Watch her in amazement as she plays and uses her imagination. Cuddle with Sheldon in the shade and watch his sister.
Come in and bake chicken, steam rice and carrots and bake cookies. Try to keep both kids happy while finishing the dinners. Ryan comes home!!!! Try (unsuccessfully) to get Sheldon down for a nap. Pack up dinner and drop it off for a friend. Race home and eat quickly so I can feed Sheldon. Super dad has gotten Sheldon to sleep and is feeding Coranelle. Run over to the neighbors house to let them know I've noticed smoldering and smoke coming off their deck for hours. Come home and clean dishes and the kitchen from dinner. Nurse Sheldon. Play with both kids with Ryan. Ryan bathes Coranelle while I read to and hang out with Sheldon. I head up to read books to Coranelle and say prayers before bed. Sit on the bean bag chair with her and smell her clean hair and listen to her adorable voice and just feel so thankful and happy. Tuck her in, rub her tummy, wind up the music box. Ryan goes to Rec Center. Try (unsuccessfully) to get Sheldon to take a nap. So, we play, rock, he cries, and finally at 9pm he falls asleep. I have him on the boppy and am lying next to him holding his pacifier in his mouth. He falls asleep with each of his little hands wrapped around one of my fingers. I lie there and take in his milky, sweet baby scent and listen to his breathing and never want to move. Sometime in there, I have to go upstairs and take Coranelle's blankets and bunny away so she stops playing and goes to sleep. She apologizes for jumping in her crib and says, "Please mommy, can I try again. I will go to sleep." So, I tuck her back in. Make some cookies for us. Pack up a bag for Coranelle for swimming tomorrow. Ryan returns home and I heat up Sheldon's bottle, get my pump stuff ready. Start feeding Sheldon while Ryan eats my amazing cookies. Ryan finishes feeding Sheldon. I pump and wash all pieces. Then, while we watch a "How I met your Mother", we stare at our adorable, wide eyed, smiling son. Put Sheldon down. Say a little prayer for him. Head up stairs for a shower. Take a few minutes to blog.
Think about how tired and how unbelievably happy I am. I have two amazing, growing, changing, smiling, fun, incredible kids. I get to stay home with them and experience all kinds of moments with them. I have a wonderful, helpful, patient and supportive husband who allows me to play outside in the sprinklers with my kids and read countless books. He comes home and is ready to help and play. When people ask what it's like with two- I say "busy", because it is. But, it is also really wonderful and fun. I love my kids and I love my job.
1 comment:
Oh, Kari I love this! And I can picture it all so much better now after getting to meet Sheldon and see your home -- you truly are an amazing mom. I know you feel blessed to have the kids you do, but they're so very blessed to have you too!! It was so great to see you! ....I just wish it could happen more often. Big hugs from NC!
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